In this high paced world full of technologies, social media stands at the top of the hierarchical tree. Its existence has just set up a new level of evolution, something which never existed before; atleast not of the kind we see today. Not having a profile in Instagram and especially facebook is now equivalent to not knowing the President of America. Even pets and new born babies have their own social media profiles! Just Choose an objective and you will have the relevant social media tailored for it. There is a wide spectrum of social media technologies springing forth every hour and we don’t even know a quarter of it.
Theoretically, such technologies are analyzed on the basis of its seven key elements i.e.-
>Identity, Presence, Relationships, Reputation, Groups, Conversations and Sharing. One such social media platform which qualifies for atleast six of the above elements is ‘The School of life’ (an i am not speaking metaphorically, it is actually one!) I came across this site recently through its parent channel in youtube with the same name.
As an introvert, I always found myself a little isolated from the crowd. In school and in college, my lifestyle was quite different from the rest of my peers and that often made me feel alone and sometimes even question myself. As I had mentioned in one of my previous blogs, social media sites like Facebook and Instagram were a means for me to seek attention and feel validated. It did help me create and even maintain an identity of my own but on the larger scale it did not made any difference. Infact, it made me feel even more terrible; people posting about their ‘extraordinary lives’, groups of friends posting cheesy photos and providing a constant update of the very freaking place they have visited in the past 1 hour and to add to the fire, all posts had some sentimental captions like from ‘hum sath sath hein( we are always together)’, ‘A1 since D1’ etc. etc. All these used to make feel kinda left out. It was just a matter of time when I ran through the youtube channel of ‘The School of life’. They had made some really nice videos, providing philosophical explanations to every aspect of life’s troubles, ranging from socializing to overcoming emotional upheavals. It had an intellectual answer to almost every problem you can think of and it really made sense. Most importantly, it DIDN’T make me feel left out because the channel is quite popular and the reason is that there are people like me too. They are also available in the form of a digital app where like minded people, particularly introverted people from all over the world can chat with each other, share posts, comment etc. Basically, it is a facebook for introverts with a small user base and with a lot of philosophical dozes. I have using it for the last six months and I can very well say that it qualifies for all the above elements. All though it has the characteristic for all the elements, one which it particularly highlights the most is- Identity: As I had said, it made me feel like a part of one community who have the same mind-set. This app is targeted for a very particular kind of audience and so those who have an affinity with it will also have an identity associated with it, as it is in my case. Here you don’t feel like the odd one out because here, all the odds are coalesced into a one.
Note: this post is not meant to endorse or advertise ‘The School of life.’ It just my personal preference.










